The Most Important Consideration Of
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Miranda Sawyer - “Are you of
the opinion that people wear make-up to shield themselves from the world ?”
Richey - “Maybe from themselves,
from their own reflection in the mirror because they don’t like looking at
themselves. But even when you wear it you still look pretty bad.”
Nicky - “If you say that, the
only thing is that virtually every woman in the world then is trying to shield
herself - well, not EVERY woman in the world, but in Western civilisation.”
( The Manic Street Preachers on ‘Raw Soup’,
31/5/93 )
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By far the most potent and oft-quoted
reason for men wearing make-up is the same as that given by women – it makes
them beautiful.
For Niger’s Wodaabe
people, make-up is worn
by men during ceremonial dances, to make them appear more
beautiful to women. For the yaake – the charm competition – in
particular, the make-up worn is that which accentuates the most admired
physical features (right, © Carol Beckwith). Skin tone is lightened using pale
yellow powder, black kohl rings the eyes and mouth to accentuate the whiteness
of the eyes and teeth, and a line is painted from the forehead to the chin to
elongate the nose ( Beckwith, 1983; p508 ). There are, of course, contrasts
between the Wodaabe and those within our society, most notably that total
cultural acceptance of the practice is only seen in the former group. However,
that make-up was being used by the Wodaabe for primarily beautification reasons
is of paramount import – parallels can clearly be seen between these peoples’
highlighting of certain facial features and Western cosmetic practices.
There are certain men whose
primary reason for wearing make-up seems to be to engender a reaction. The
make-up routine of journalist Simon Price, for example, involves an application
of a pale foundation over his entire bald skull, and heavy black eye make-up;
as ‘true beauty stands out from the
crowd’. David Ryder-Prangley, another of my interviewees and lead singer in the
band ‘Rachel Stamp’, also prefers looking ‘striking’ to just ‘nice’. However,
all of my interviewees – and indeed, all those I have seen and spoken to – agreed
that they were trying to use make-up to improve their appearance, with
most claiming they would not wear it if it did not suit. While emulation – of
either your friends or the famous – is the most common reason for men to begin
wearing make-up, that it highlights favoured facial features is usually their
main incentive for continuing to do so.
“I think make-up should be used to enhance
what you have and hide what you don’t.”
( Charlie Ivens, 2000
)
Ivens’ theory as to the usage of cosmetics is one almost
universally adhered to, amongst both men and women. Even clowns, in their use
of make-up, are only exaggerating existing features with their big red mouths
and high-definition eyes. For most, however, the ‘feature enhancement’ which
they practice falls short such caricature. Beautification is a far more common
goal than deliberate ugliness, as only the former is linked to mate-attraction
and reproductive success.
‘There is to my mind no doubt that the concept of ‘beautiful’ has its
roots in sexual excitation and that its original meaning was sexual
stimulation.’ ( Freud, 1905; p69 )
As Freud himself notes (
1905; p69 ), the German word for ‘stimulus’ – reiz – is also used as the
equivalent term for the English ‘charm’ or ‘attraction’. Psychologists and
psycho-analysts have long given consideration to the usage of make-up in
attraction. While it is known that make-up can make a person appear beautiful,
it is much harder to quantify why this is so. As Freud suggested in the
quote above, beauty can indeed be described in terms of sexual excitation –
cosmetics can both highlight features deemed ‘beautiful’ by society or those
with connotations of virility, and artificially recreate physical markers of sexual
stimulation.
Foundations, powders and
concealers are used in the West to achieve matt skin-tone of uniform colour and
to hide blemishes of age or ill-health, as ‘clear skin’ is seen as desirable.
Most of the men whom I interviewed did not use either foundation or powder, as
they deemed them both time-consuming and unnecessary, although they were not
adverse to using concealers. Indeed, in a recent article for the Sunday Mirror
on male beauty ( 2000; p12 ), an insurance worker in his late twenties admitted
to using his girlfriend’s foundation to disguise a shaving rash – when it comes
to skin beauty, it appears most men would rather hide than enhance. For my
interviewees, blusher was similarly uncommon, seemingly also deemed
unnecessary. This mimicking of the sexual flush achieved during arousal (
Morris, 1967; p50, 63, 79 ) remains uncommon amongst those make-up wearers not
leaning towards drag. By contrast, the practice of highlighting the eyes is
astoundingly popular.
‘It [ eye-liner ] works for anyone, male or female. It makes the eyes
just…kick out at you and it’s definitely for boys in rock ‘n’ roll.’ (
Izzard & Quantick, 1998; p71 )
While some
cosmetics men appear happy to ignore, eye make-up appears to be universal.
Indeed, apart from glitter ( which is itself usually positioned around the eyes
), the majority of men tend to restrict themselves to the usage of eyeliner,
mascara and perhaps eyeshadow. The eyes are often referred to as being ‘the
windows to the soul’; in tests, people find large or wide-eyed individuals the
most attractive – this is because, during sexual arousal, pupil dilation
occurs, a physical characteristic to which humans are highly responsive, albeit
usually subconsciously ( Morris, 1967; p60 ). By highlighting this area with
eyeliner or mascara, males are re-appropriating a trick which had become
traditionally female, and directing attention to this key feature. When asked
for his reasons for wearing eye make-up, one of my interviewees replied:
“People tell me I
have good eyes, and I thought I’d draw attention to them a bit better than just
opening them” ( Charlie Ivens, 2000 )
A far less common
habit among male make-up wearers is the usage of lipstick – within my interview
group, while all had tried it in the past, only three individuals claimed to
use it with any regularity. Highlighting the lips in this way draws attention
to them, and thus the sexual promise of the mouth. Sexual arousal for both
males and females of our species is noted to produce a swelling and reddening
of the lips, which even in their normal state are clearly marked on the face as
a tactile sexual structure ( Morris, 1967; p51, 61, 79 ). The practice of
deliberately defining these areas appears to be a way of artificially
recreating this sexual glow.
Common psycho-analytical thought is that to
draw attention to the face’s labia-like lips is to draw attention to your
sexual potential. Freud, with his strident views of fetishism, whereby
everything can seemingly be traced back to a genital-obsession and castration
fears ( 1927; p351-7 ), would no doubt have seen the male’s emulation of such
sexual mimicry in women as evidence of a deeply rooted psychosis. Freud feels
all men suffer ‘a fright of castration at the sight of a female genital’ (
1927; p354 ), and would most probably see their make-up is a way of expressing
this anxiety. On a similar line of thinking, one can consider the idea that
make-up could be seen as pandering to humanity’s scopophilic tendencies – this
fetishising of the genitals, and the act of looking at them ( Easthope, 1990;
p137 ) is made a public and non-shameful thing by drawing attention to the
labia-like lips using cosmetic colourings. Personally, I do not feel that
psychological explanations can always be rooted in the genitalia, and my
lipstick-wearing interviewees found the suggestion too hysterical to take
seriously.
Over the last five years or so, glitter has
made a notable comeback in the fashion world – behind eyeliner, it appears to
be the most common fashion-cosmetic for men, with one of my interviewees, Emil
Andrews, dubbing it ‘the next logical step after eyeliner’. Whilst some would
place the ‘blame’ for this squarely on the shoulders of a Seventies Revival,
others feel that sparkles – whether in the form of make-up or diamanté
additions to your clothing – lends the wearer the feeling that he or she is a
star, giving you ‘an out-of-this-world twinkling beauty and an out-of-reach
glamour’ ( Bartley, 1998 ). For around two pounds a tube, this sort of
‘glamour’ is very easily accessible, and its fetching appearance coupled with
its low-price is probably the main reason behind its popularity. Indeed,
make-up wearing as a whole can be explained by that rationale; as one of my
interviewees - Ian Cockburn – put it, when it comes to looking good, ‘buying
makeup is an easy step in the right direction; it costs so much less than new
clothes’. However, make-up is not
solely a symbol of vanity of narcissism. Luella Bartley’s Telegraph article (
1998 ), also described glitter’s ability to transform the wearer into an
ephemeral being; it allows escape from the flat grey world of work and routine.
She writes of girls seeking solace from the mediocre by dressing themselves up
– surely then this attitude is also applicable to boys. When asked to explain
in his own words why he wore make-up, one reason Ian Cockburn ( 2000 )
proffered was: ‘The desire to experiment with my appearance, so I'm not so
ugly.’
“Even the most challenging beauty problem can be solved by tastefully
emphasising the positive and concealing the negative.” ( Miss Piggy, 1981; p13
)
Make-up has a long history
of being used to make the wearer what he or she is not – more attractive to the
beholder. Those whom are rarely seen without make-up are often termed as vain,
but in fact they may be suffering the inverse of vanity. Such an aesthetic
insecurity of self leaves them with such a low self-opinion that they feel to
not be wearing be wearing make-up would be unfair on the watching world, as the
public would then be forced to witness the naked horror of that person’s face.
Confidence is often tied up with a feeling of personal beauty – as more and
more emphasis is laid upon the external within our society, using make-up to
look good enough to face the world could swiftly become an issue of pertinence
for both the sexes.
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©
Isabelle Adam, 2000
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Last revised: 15/03/02